Introverts aren’t always the shy quiet type or the shrinking violet. In fact introversion and shyness are different things that many people mistakenly think are the same.
Introverts are often quite confident but just need time and space to be at their best. Here are some traits that can put them well ahead of their extroverted counterparts.
1. A wise man speaks because he has something to say; a fool because he has to say something. – Plato
Introverts are more likely to think before they speak. In a world full of meaningless chatter, well thought out and reasoned words can have a huge impact.
2. Hold the small talk thanks
Sometimes mistaken for aloofness or arrogance, many introverts just don’t go in for superficial chit-chat much preferring meaningful conversations. They will often ask great questions and be more likely to genuinely listen to the answers.
3. Playing It Cool
In a heated situation or a crisis, an introvert will often provide a much needed level head and calm confidence.
4. Preparation is the key
Introverts are less likely to wing their way through a meeting or presentation, preparing much more thoroughly beforehand.
5. Down time
When introverts honour their natural need for time alone, this time is often when they produce their best work. A little time-out provides clarity of thought and enhances creativity.
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